However 2018 has turned out for you, now is the time to release it with love so you can usher in a brand new year with peace, perspective and power! Here are 10 questions to use to reflect on the past year and form part of your own at-home ritual.
I like to spend a good few weeks at the end of the year and start of the next reviewing, releasing and calling in the new. What I've learned is that there is NO RUSH to do this.
I suggest marking out a few nights when you can be alone to light some candles, brew a hot cup of tea, and settle in for a few hours of open-heart honesty.
When we clear out the old, we make room for what is new to manifest in our lives.
So grab your journal and see what comes up for you with these 10 questions to release 2018 and usher in a beautiful new year.
WHAT WERE YOUR TOP FIVE MOMENTS OF THE YEAR?
I know that there are things you achieved or experienced that were uplifting, transformative, and expansive. What were they?
WHAT ARE YOU REALLY GLAD IS OVER?
It could be a toxic relationship, a stagnant job, a living situation, or even a friend. We all have stuff that we’re glad is behind us. What’s yours?
HOW ARE YOU DIFFERENT TODAY THAN YOU WERE 365 DAYS AGO?
What did your life look like a year ago? How did you act, stand, and talk, and how is it different to the you sitting here today?
IS THERE ANYTHING YOU ACHIEVED THAT YOU FORGOT TO CELEBRATE?
A lot of us are very guilty of this: rushing from moment to moment, without taking a moment to acknowledge how much we’ve done. The result? We end up exhausted. Take a minute to congratulate yourself for all that you accomplished this year.
WHAT IS THE BIGGEST THING YOU LEARNED ABOUT YOURSELF THIS YEAR?
Have you been in a situation where you've been invited to reflect on your values or character this year? Did you shed some old stories about yourself this year? Did you begin to see yourself in a different — hopefully more positive — way? Do you think it will guide your behaviour in 2019?
WHO ARE THE PEOPLE YOU'RE MOST GRATEFUL FOR THIS YEAR?
Sometimes we’re surprised by the people that stand by us, and the ones who drift away. Let’s take some time to be thankful for those who gave us their attention, and loved us just as we are.
WHAT IS SOMETHING YOU TOLERATED FOR A LONG TIME, BUT NOW YOU WILL NOT?
Was there a straw that broke the camel’s back this year? What unacceptable behaviour do you now draw the line at — both your own and other people’s?
WHAT WAS ONE THING THAT YOU FOUND CHALLENGING, BUT CAN NOW SEE SUPPORTED YOUR GROWTH?
What gruelling experiences did you have that actually ended up helping you become a stronger, braver person?
WHO OR WHAT ARE YOU READY TO FORGIVE?
Forgiveness is the ultimate gift to yourself. How can you take a weight off your shoulders so you can move forward feeling lighter?
IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU TELL YOURSELF THIS TIME LAST YEAR?
What words of love or wisdom would have helped you make the most of 2018? What advice would you have given yourself?
I hope these questions will give you a sweeter view of everything you achieved, and will give you the strength to enter 2019 with much more confidence and clarity.
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